Why and how to determine Life Values
How do you want to make the right decisions in important moments when you do not even have written your life values? How do you want to respond appropriately in decisive situations when you do not even know what you're fighting for?
One of my college classmates was unusually mentally mature, smart, appealing, determined and charismatic. The girls fancied him. However, it was strange that he was not good looking. On the contrary. He was slim and had a giant, curved nose. But he always knew what to say, and he always had his own opinion for which he stood firmly. He was like a rock. Everyone, including me, wanted to be like him.
I wanted to find out the reason why he was like that. And you do you know what I found out? His parents wanted him to create a list of life values and wanted him to repeat them daily. The winners have their life values written and know them by heart. And so he wrote them and became an eternal winner. He eventually built a company that he sold for 150 million CZK. Now he is a rich, healthy, humble and with his family an extremely happy person.
How is it possible that so little is just enough to get love, respect, prosperity, and still be appealing?
Now you might say that the story of my classmate was just a coincidence. But it is not. I've been doing research for several years, and I found out that all important people have their compass. It does not matter whether it is a top politician, sportsman, employee, manager or entrepreneur. It works.
Living your life without written life values is the same as driving a car blindfolded. You inevitably undergo one crash after another in the form of many bad decisions that make your life constantly complicated.
I would hit you with a hammer if you set the life values. I know that you would thank me later on. But it does not make sense to persuade you, or beat you with a hammer, because it does not help.
Just let me tell you what you will receive.
If you set your own life values and determine their order, you will get rid of all your unpleasant dilemmas. Your life will be as solid as rock, you will increase your inner peace; you will imprint your own formula of decision-making and behaviour in your subconscious. From that moment you will make quick and precise decisions.
It's unbelievable. Just repeat life values two minutes a day and become one of the most popular people. Do not hesitate and go for it. Those minutes a day is a really low price for all what you can get.
Is it useless to repeat it every day?
It is necessary to get the content of your compass deep into the subconscious, because the subconscious decides and acts for you in the 80% of the time, and does not care what is good or bad for you. It depends on what you feed it with. Therefore, it is extremely important to feed it with what is good for you. In addition, the subconscious quickly forgets. That is why it needs to be repeated until it becomes a habit. Repeating is the only chance to resist external industrial, political, and advertising influences.
Written life values are like an elite guard that watches your life as an ancient fortress. It watches what comes in and out.
In moments of excitement your subconscious automatically evaluates the situation according to your values of life and then makes a right and quick decision. Just as my classmate did at school and how other winners do.
I attach my own life values for which I fight:
- Life
- Time
- Love
- Health
- Beloved family
- Dream work
- Friends
- Nature and animals
- Kindness, humility, honour and courage
Start with it right now, even if you only have one life value. That's exactly how the winners start. The first step. If I manage to persuade you to write down the life values, it will mean adding another good man to the world, a parent, a child who knows their own life values. And that is a great contribution to the society.
In conclusion, I have got a message to unconscious parents.
How do you want your child to resist drugs and other devastating addictions if you do not even help them instil basic life values in the subconscious? Where can they take strength, inspiration, will, motivation, if they do not even know their own life values? Help them and you will be among the best parents in the world.
A message to unconscious teachers
What right do you think you have when you ask your pupils for respect and results when you are unable to help him or her even with the basic, which is undoubtedly their life values? What kind of unprofessional you are when you do not teach these basic skills before reading and writing? Help your pupils, because that will make you one of the best teachers in the world and you can save many lives.
"If I succeeded in convincing you to write down your life values, it would mean that another good man, a parent, a child who knows his or her life values, has been added to the world. And this is a great benefit for the society." Go to the YeahCoach Daily Habits!
Inspiration: Jack Canfield, Tony Robbins, Dan Miller